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Parents can maintain their dignity and autonomy by being involved as much as possible in decision making.
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Finances and tasks can be divided up, rather than falling on one child's shoulders.
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Participants can build a "custom-made" plan that works well for them.
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In a private, informal setting, the mediator will help them overcome obstacles that block problem-solving.
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Families that turn to family mediation can improve their relationships and show loving care for their parents.
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A neutral third party helps the family with appropriate processes in order to help them reach true consensus on decisions regarding eldercare.
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Helps clear up misunderstandings, provides for the expression of true feelings, and keeps the family on track.
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Helps family members heal hurt feelings, as well as working to avoid blame and self-pity.
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Provides for future modifications of their written agreement as the need arises.
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Involves the parents in the process focusing on their capabilities rather than their perceived incapacities. Attorneys often deal exclusively with a guardian or attorney-in-fact, but in mediation, parents can be included fully or to the extent possible.
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Encourages family members to focus on what is in the best interest of their parent.
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Helps the family members consider as many options as possible, and
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Helps them evaluate options while leaving the decision making to the family.
